People who are grieving are not always aware that there are alternatives to having a service conducted by a Christian Minister or Humanist Officiant, but as Independent Funeral Celebrants, we have the freedom to offer funeral services that more accurately fit YOUR beliefs and philosophies, as well as those of the deceased.
In today’s modern, increasingly secular and multi-faith society, many people describe themselves as 'spiritual but not religious'; they may have developed their own unique ideas about life and death, which might not be fully reflected by either a religious or an atheist funeral service. We now provide an alternative.
You may have found our web-site because you have been searching for Independent Funeral Celebrants based in Orkney or perhaps we have been recommended by a Funeral Director. However you have found us, we are fully aware that our first contact with you is likely to be at a time that is sad and difficult for you. We would like to start by reassuring you that we will work sensitively with you to create a unique and beautiful funeral service that is fully sympathetic to your and your loved one’s beliefs.
Our funeral ceremonies are centred on the individual life of the deceased and are designed to bring comfort to those who are left bereaved. We can offer funeral services where there is no mention of religion or God at all, or we can include hymns, songs, blessings, readings, poems, prayers, and meditations from any combination of religious or spiritual tradition. Family and friends are welcomed and encouraged to participate in the service by contributing their own tributes – perhaps by speaking or through music. All of our ceremonies offer ways of saying 'goodbye' that are intended to be personal and meaningful for everyone present.
We work closely with you to create a ritual which the deceased would have wanted and which will aim to provide solace to those who are grieving. Each ceremony we create is a bespoke tribute, written respectfully and with honour. We try to find the right emotional mood which fits what the mourners deem appropriate: whether that is dignified, sombre, positive, humorous or uplifting. We focus on life, not on death; on those qualities which made the person who has died a special and unique individual.
We usually start by meeting with the family, or close friends, to discuss their requirements. This initial meeting will take about an hour or two; we will take notes and ask questions during this time – and you will be welcomed to ask questions of us in return: our working process is deliberately collaborative.
We expect you to ask: 'Could we ...?'
We expect to reply: 'Yes, of course you can ...'
We have both trained with and are members of the Fellowship of Professional Celebrants. Membership provides us with public liability insurance.
Our fees for funerals start from £200 and will be mutually discussed and agreed with you depending on your particular requirements and the total time committment required from us; expenses may also be due.